I've had my Monstera deliciosa for about eight months now and I'm still figuring out the watering schedule

I've had my Monstera deliciosa for about eight months now and I'm still figuring out the watering schedule. I know they like to dry out between waterings, but I keep second-guessing myself—is the soil actually dry enough? I'd love to share a photo of mine to show how it's been splitting lately, though I'm not sure if that's normal or if I'm just getting lucky. Does anyone else struggle with finding that sweet spot, or am I overthinking this?