I've had my Monstera deliciosa for about six months now and I'm still figuring out the watering rhythm

I've had my Monstera deliciosa for about six months now and I'm still figuring out the watering rhythm. It's perched near a north-facing window in my tropical climate, so it's pretty humid, but I keep second-guessing myself on whether the soil is actually dry enough. Does anyone else struggle with this, or am I just overthinking it? Also, I'm getting tiny fenestrations on the new leaves, which is exciting—I read that means it's happy, so I must be doing something right!